Hi Jane, I didn't actually pick a side at all. I wouldn't say that Flora was right to call someone "retarded", but such a comment does not warrant the response. Obviously Runner needed to see how his behaviour was viewed. Trying to make a personal attack by attacking an entire nation "nationalsocialistic China", especially in a place like this is simply ignorant. One might even say retar… oh, never mind :) If there is a behind the scenes story then the conversation should be kept behind the scenes, rather than in a public forum.
That said, if Runner is going to tell me he didn't call her a hooker and then say "I'm not divine to forgive a hooker", there's little point in continuing, as we are not even speaking the same language :) And Runner, "If you get threated bad very VERY bad, would you forgive that person then?" Yes. What you haven't learned yet is that forgiving is to benefit the one doing the forgiving and not the one who is perceived as doing the wrong. Perhaps one day you will learn that lesson. You'll be a happier person then. Cheers, Randy
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