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May 20, 2012
Please Listen When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice, you have not done what I asked. When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn't feel that way, you are trampling on my feelings. When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problem, you have failed me, strange as that may seem. Listen! All I ask is that you listen. Don't talk or do - just hear me. Advice is cheap - 20 cents will get you both Dear Abby and Billy Graham in the same newspaper. And I can do for myself; I am not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering, but not helpless. When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself, you contribute to my fear and inadequacy. But when you accept as a simple fact that I feel what I feel, no matter how irrational, then I can stop trying to convince you and get about this business of understanding what's behind this irrational feeling. And when that's clear, the answers are obvious and I don't need advice. Irrational feelings make sense when we understand what's behind them. Perhaps that's why prayer works - sometimes - for some people, because God is mute. and he doesn't give advice or try to fix things. God just listens and lets you work it out for yourself. So please listen, and just hear me. And if you want to talk, wait a minute for your turn, and I will listen to you
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05:50 AM Jun 03 2012 |
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ola33
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Criz, to me advice means care when you ask for it - - " I need your advice" , but when you don't need it -- a person who advises makes a person inferior. I think it's one of the inpolited gestures to say to you what you "think" you know better and in a manner " Let me give you advice for the future to avoid mistakes like that and make the others happier." It's not caring, it's vanity. But when you ask a person -- that's another questions. Have a good weekend :) We've had lots rain over the last two days and now everything is like that
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02:35 AM Jun 03 2012 |
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Mahtab.bp
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For My Lovely Friend Criz! I wish for you a wonderful life full of happiness and love!
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01:18 AM Jun 03 2012 |
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Crizsearch
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01:16 AM Jun 03 2012 |
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Crizsearch
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05:45 AM May 21 2012 |
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ola33
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03:01 AM May 21 2012 |
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Agnolia
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May 11, 2012
Many people are being imprisoned by the mind, creation, good nature, the devil satan, dreaming endlessly which lead them to something meaningless.
PEOPLE FALL INTO THE HELL OF THE WORLD because drowned by Panca indra ( five senses ) , pursuing the wonderlust of Five colors BLACK, RED, YELLOW, AND WHITE, ONCE IN LARGE AMOUNTS, absorbed INTO his body.
I miss my first life, when I still pure and never known dream , never known directions, Never known black, red, white, yellow green, blue . When will I be back to my first life. My Born in the world of death is so hard because I have a heart as people which contained new characters.
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08:07 PM May 19 2012 |
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Crizsearch
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Thank you sisters.... sorry I can't answer one by one. My mind is a little mess :D . Have a great weekend! |
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05:53 AM May 18 2012 |
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Mahtab.bp
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Hello my Dear Criz! How are you doing? Miss you so much! Be happy and have a great weekend!
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04:58 AM May 18 2012 |
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Irene Forever
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11:41 PM May 15 2012 |
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Buttafly
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Some sweet sensation for a sweet girl :)) Glad you like the BLACK COFFEE song. EVerything matches.the lyrics..the tune..the chords. It reruns on my computer for hours. Have a sweet day, dearest Criz!
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10:41 PM May 15 2012 |
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kotlesya
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Criz, you said you miss your first life. How do you think what did your first life look like? Likely you will never return to your first life, because the third life is waiting for you in 100 years. You are too young to think about your present ( second life) in such pessimistic way. You have only started to live. So it is not so hard to get on well with this life. You are looking good, you are clever, you are kind and easy going girl. All treasures of life will be thrown to your feet because you deserve it. |
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10:25 AM May 15 2012 |
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Irene Forever
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05:13 AM May 15 2012 |
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Agnolia
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April 21, 2012
Okay, the simple explanation for Sate is grilled meat on sticks or skewers. Commonly the meat is diced and marinated in spices such as turmeric, onion, coconut milk lemon grass, sweet ketchup and peanut sauce. Usually the meats to make Sate are ranging from Chicken, mutton, beef, prawn, fish, even snake and turtle, but i my country especially we use only mutton and chicken, even beef is uncommon to make it as Sate.
Ketupat (rice cake) or traditional food for Ied celebration, rice, cucumber are the best companion for serving Sate. Some of family can even make their own Sate. It usually serves for potluck, picnic, BBQ gathering, family gathering, etc. Or if we don't want to keep ourselves busy with kitchen, we still can find Sate from a stand near road, food store until the very expensive restaurant. I hope you guys not to forget to try Sate while visiting my country. Enjoy our traditional dish!
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01:24 AM May 11 2012 |
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Irene Forever
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May you have a bowl of happiness full of smiles, my dear sister. With love Irene
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02:26 AM May 08 2012 |
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Julie3
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dear sist, u know I wish u only happiness and all the best. stay in touch ;)
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07:29 AM May 03 2012 |
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CatcheR
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Cris, Hi you Busy as bee hhhhhhhhh.... :D assignments nyahoooooookkk...... |
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04:00 AM May 02 2012 |
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Eleniya
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Oh, no! I wanted to paste a beautiful picture, but failed.... |
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03:58 AM May 02 2012 |
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Eleniya
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Hi, dear, how are you? :) Is it hot in Indonesia now? Our Spring is turned to Summer soon, sometimes warm, sometimes hot at days, but nights are still cool. |
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03:19 AM May 01 2012 |
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Julie3
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Sist, what to say? U read my mind! Anyway, it's proved meals gives power to brains (which is important for u now) so enjoy a russian traditional bakery staffed with fish and mashrooms
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02:49 PM Apr 30 2012 |
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04:05 AM Apr 30 2012 |
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kotlesya
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Criz, dear I'm happy to see your comments on my blog! :) You are always welcome!!! Today I want to wish you the good start of the week! Stay blessed, always loved by people and lucky!
What is a frog inside Ice cube you were talking about? Explain me, please ;) |
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09:25 AM Apr 29 2012 |
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Buttafly
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For a special Criz...there is only one gift I can think of .. I wished I could reach out to you to give you that special hug Thank you for the hearty waffles....they looked so yummy and mouthwatering :) Have a great week and stay blessed :))
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11:43 AM Apr 28 2012 |
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Irene Forever
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Just dropped in at your profile to wish you a sunny weekend, dear sister.♥
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